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While your point that Biden's gaffes should elicit more compassion than ridicule is valid, your assertions that they find meaning based on Freud's assertions about the unconscious as a doorway to truth are questionable. Freud's theories have long been criticised for their lack of scientific validity as they are unable to be falsified; this places them more in the realm of pseudoscience. However, this is not to say that Freud's contributions are entirely worthless as his psychoanalytic approach has been fundamental to talk therapy. The idea that the content of the gaffes signifies an alternate and deeper meaning is a valiant attempt at attributing meaning where there likely is none. Sometimes a gaffe is just a gaffe; particularly when the speaker is advanced in years and likely experiencing excessive stress.

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I once attended a meeting to discuss the provision of support for people with dementia and their loved ones (usually a spouse) who had become socially isolated as a result of the condition. For obvious reasons this is a very hard group of people to connect with. They are not able to organise on a local level and present a vocal united front in the way many charities have become very adept at doing, and yet they desperately need help.

Though I am sure there are those in the higher echelons of public healthcare in the UK who might, upon eyeing the budget sheet, be inclined to turn a blind eye and allow nature to run its course, there are also health and social care workers at ground level who will take up the fight on behalf of those who find themselves marginalised as a result of an illness. I have been watching this class of individual slowly vanish as the NHS progresses towards its reinvention as a private/public venture, that is restrictive when it should allow freedom to make judgement calls and alarmingly lax when professionalism should be the order of the day. You will not know what you have lost until people like this have been expunged from the service in the name of corporate interests.

The meeting was held in a room at the foot of a tower block of council flats; one of those liminal spaces, that the local authority has access to, that seem to phase in and out of existence like Brigadoon. Despite arriving early, I ended up being a quarter of an hour late because I couldn't find the place. I remain convinced that it only cycled into our plane of existence after I had walked around the foot of the block the requisite number of times.

The severity of the problem under discussion was made glaringly obvious by the fact that the healthcare professionals in attendance outnumbered the members of public who had turned up; the latter amounting to an elderly couple who lived just down the road.

I was very pleased to reacquaint myself with a speech and language therapist with whom I had formed a good working relationship while I was employed at Southend Hospital. During a break, she asked me to identify which of the elderly couple was the one with dementia. Though I answered correctly, it was more of an educated guess.

I understand that there is a phenomenon related to dementia called 'masking' where a spouse or a family member will, often subconsciously, assist in concealing the mental decline of a loved one, by covering for their missteps or, in extreme cases, by adopting a similar demeanour so the condition is less obvious. It is as touching as it is tragic. The kindest thing that you can do for a friend or family member who you suspect may have dementia is to steer them towards a diagnosis and treatment at the earliest possible opportunity.

I don't dispute that slips of the tongue are interesting and a potential revelator of hidden truths. However, I've been around enough dementia patients to recognise advancing cognitive decline when I see it. While I have no love for Biden (whose family make the Kennedys look like The Waltons by comparison) the collective masking of his deteriorating mental state, by his party and a complicit media, amounts to out in the open elder abuse, on a par with that experienced by the Marvel Comics founder, Stan Lee, during his final years. It is a cynical move aimed at ushering a clearly ailing man into the starting gate of a two horse race, so that whoever has been running the United States over the past four years can continue to do so.

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