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Keith Hammond's avatar

Hanif, this is such a beautiful love story, wrapped with achingly tender psychoanalytical detail. Your recall and self-examination of the past and present is clear and without self delusion. Did you keep a note of all the books you read in 1964?

Kathy Sale's avatar

´My Ear at His Heart’ is a beautiful enquiry into the life and mind of a parent brought up in a different culture. One of my favourite of Hanif’s works. xx

Julie Brittain's avatar

I love this for many reasons.

Jacqueline de Jong's avatar

A beautiful and insightful book! And how lovely to see the photo’s of you and your family.

RJ Rentals's avatar

If it may lend less complication at all: I had 3 dads, all very different yet very influential. Your astute observations in your life are truly remarkable, as is your gifted ability to convey meaning.

Yours is a gift to many, including me.

Lee Buchanan's avatar

I thoroughly enjoyed reading that. I'm going straight off to buy 'An Ear at His Heart' . The relationship I have with my father who died 16 years ago is continually evolving so I found this a fascinating read.

koandco's avatar

Was the book good? I'm sure he could have been published if he only found the right person, editor..

Sorina S Hunter's avatar

Can't wait to hear more..

Catherine Hiller's avatar

Of all the authors you mention, only one (Erica Jong) is a woman. Perhaps you ought to broaden your reading!

Audrey Gran Weinberg's avatar

I’m intrigued! I was a bookish child myself, isolated from the world by my parents for four years while traveling the world on a boat. And now my father has passed away, I find myself in possession of a start of his captain’s log and my mother’s journals from that period. Neither ended up writing about the boat trip, and given the stormy family dynamics, I feel there’s a book waiting to be written by me, before the memories are all forgotten.